โœ… Do you know the ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต, something is not quite right?
โœ…Or this big ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜€๐—ฒ of a yes. Or no for that matter.
โœ…You are ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ and not long after you get a call from the same person.
โœ…The dog/cat who is ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ณ ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ bevor the owner is back home.
โœ…A new member in the team and suddenly ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ.

โ–ถ These are ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€.

๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜€๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€. Us with our family, our business, within our teams, the company we work for, circle of friends, town etc…

Systems have their ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐˜†๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ฐ, and as you can imagine when systems are ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, this makes everything more ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜….

Systems ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ your beliefs, your innate ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ, you ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ (also consider trans-generational heritage and epigenetic).

With ๐˜€๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป you can make it ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ. It gives ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† to understand what is going on. And that often is ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต to ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ some blocks you cannot shift or help you to understand certain things.

๐Ÿค Coaching has many different aspects. And I have been working with different methods that fit in the systemic approach (considering the larger picture of the client).
๐Ÿคฏ However constellation work (also known as family constellation) is a ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ for my clients!

Are you at a point where you feel you want to understand your system better?
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